Mel Whyatt Articles

Learning that we’re good enough

Learning that we’re good enough

Little Alfie opens the kitchen cupboard and pulls out the contents, squealing with delight at the clatter he has caused. Person-centred counsellors like me believe that this 16-month-old boy is, like all human beings, driven by the ‘actualising tendency’, his internal...

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Safe and effective in a pandemic

Safe and effective in a pandemic

Counselling via Zoom or phone Though the Prime Minister Boris Johnson has set out a long road to easing of lockdown restrictions, I will continue to meet clients via Zoom or telephone as I have since the first lockdown of March 2020. For me, working online or via...

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Rooting for spontaneity

Rooting for spontaneity

In the pre-pandemic days we enjoyed city breaks, my partner planned our excursions to the last detail while my inclination was always to cast aside compass and maps and, like a greedy truffle hog, follow my snout. Or rather, follow the ‘desire paths’ of whichever city...

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